Contrary to what most people believe, tantra massage is not just a type of sexual massage. Although they can indeed be very sensual and do wake up the body's sexual energies, its main goal is not just sexual gratification. The followers of Hinduism consider tantra as a way of achieving personal growth through activities that give pleasure. Accordingly, tantra massage may spark orgasm, but that is more a bonus than the real prize.
Tantra massage has several goals. One is to awaken the "kundalini", a form of powerful energy that lies dormant at the base of the spine. When the "kundalini" is awakened, it boosts the body's capacity to heal itself. Tantra massage also aims to activate the "charkas" of the body. Meaning wheel or disc in the ancient language of Sanskrit, the "charka" is a center of energy in the body located on the spine.
There are seven principal "charkas" along the spine, going from the base of the spine to the neck and head. Another main objective of tantra massage is to facilitate the body's healing in the physical, emotional and spiritual sense. And not only the physical pain, tantra massage also soothes the emotional scars and elevates him to a higher spiritual level.
As tantra massage is an extremely intimate act that involves touching of sexual organs, it sometimes can leave the receiver in a very vulnerable state. That makes it important that the giver of the massage should be someone whom the receiver trusts fully and is comfortable with. No wonder tantra massage is often done between lovers to elevate the sexual experience. In this context, we can talk of two types of tantra massages: "yoni" (vagina) massage and "lingam" (penis) massage.
For "yoni" massage, pour some oil on to the mound of the yoni so it drips down the outer lips. Slowly massage each outer lip between thumb and forefinger, sliding up and down the entire length of the lip. Look into her eyes during the massage and ensure she can see what you are doing. Do the same for the inner lips of the "yoni." Take your time and see her relax. Begin by gently stroking the clitoris in a clockwise and anti-clockwise direction and squeeze it gently between your thumb and index finger. She will be aroused but try to stop an orgasm just yet, and let the sensations build. Insert the middle finger of your right hand and gently feel around inside continuing to massage gently.
For "lingam" massage, put him to bed with a pillow under his head. Put a pillow under his hips as well and spread his legs with his knees bent. Expose his "lingam" completely and begin to gently massage all over his body, keeping this area untouched for a while. Pour some oil over his shaft and testicles and softly massage his testicles. Now massage the area on the pubic bone above the "lingam." Massage the area between his testicles and his anus (perineum). Then gently grasp the base of the "lingam" with your right hand and move up the shaft and then remove your hand. Repeat with the left hand and do this for a while. Change to grasping the "lingam" at the top, slide down the shaft and remove your hand, replace with the left and repeat this process. Massage the head of the "lingam" in a circular motion. Even if the "lingam" goes soft, it will shortly perk up again. Keep bringing him close to orgasm and then back off because it helps him control his ejaculation and achieve longer and more pleasurable orgasms.
So, tantra massage gives both physical health benefits and sensual pleasure. The giver of the massage should expecting nothing in return. The receiver should open him/herself to the effects of the massage without the necessity of reciprocation. Sensual pleasure does not always mean sexual pleasure. A session of tantra massage need not end up in actual sex. Tantra massage utilizes specific massage and breathing techniques that are very useful.
(Source: www.articledoctor.com)
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